Unrequited Love

Haha. Kung si Eun, may post about up-front rejection, eto sa akin: How To Deal With Unrequited Love.

Being in love with somebody who doesn't love you can be a heartbreaking experience. Follow these steps to move past the pain and get on with your life.

1. Accept the fact that he doesn't feel the same way about you. If you continue to believe that there is a chance he will eventually love you, you will never move on.

2. Understand the reasons why he doesn't feel the same way. Understanding the reasons for the unrequited love will help you to move past the situation and get over him.

3. Stay positive. Don't let this situation cause you to have bitter feelings toward finding someone who loves you. It will lead you toward becoming a bitter and unhappy person.

4. Get your mind off of him. Spend more time with friends and family, and surround yourself with those who love and care about you.

5. Keep busy. Throw yourself into your work or hobbies. If you don't have any hobbies there are plenty to choose from so it won't be difficult finding one.

6. Remind yourself of your good qualities. Just because one person does not love you does not mean you are not a good person. Remind yourself of that as often as necessary. (Just like what Kix Collins' have said, hindi porket hindi ka nagustuhan ng isang tao ay hindi ka na kagusto-gusto)

7. Go out on dates. It may be difficult at first because your heart may still belong to him but the worst that could happen is that you meet someone you like to hang out with. You never know, you may meet someone you really like that feels the same way about you.

8. Don't feed the monster. After a week or two of grief, stop yourself from indulging conversations about your lost love or from obtaining information about them. In time, your grief will fade on its own, provided you let it.

9. Ask yourself, "Why would I want to be with anyone who doesn't love me back?" You deserve better. You may discover you are repeating a pathology from your childhood, clinging to someone who doesn't appreciate you in an effort to win the approval you could not get from your parents.